The visit of the Queen to the Republic of Ireland is significant for many reasons. Painful history is exposed to view again, and memories of past traumas are resurfacing. While some are still stuck in that hopeless past, others are looking to a new relationship, changed by the very events which have shaped that present reality. Recalling the sacrifice and cost borne by all concerned is both difficult and necessary.
How interesting that those playing the main parts in this process are women, perhaps being used to taking the courageous way forward. They want a changed relationship, and are willing to pay the price to show that.
Jesus spoke about our changed relationship with him, soon after he had washed the feet of his disciples. On that occasion, he, their Lord and master, had been their willing servant, and Peter a least found that upside down relationship hard to handle. But Jesus then went on to say, 'There is no greater love than to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. You are my friends if you do what I command. I no longer call you slaves, because a master doesn’t confide in his slaves. Now you are my friends, since I have told you everything the Father told me. (John 15.13-15)
Instead of the relationship being one of master to slave, Jesus talks of friendship. The friendship he talks about is one where friends are ready to lay down their lives for one another. Sacrifice rather than status, serving others rather than selfishness are the marks of this new relationship.
I am so grateful that he, knowing the worst about me, still is ready to call me his friend.
It raises the question in my mind about the important relationships in my life. Have they been changed by Jesus from hierarchies to equality? I hope I am willing for that to happen.
Best wishes,
Richard
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